It's Scorpio Season baby! :)

If you're born between October 24th and November 24th HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! It's Scorpio season and I am a proud Scorpio! We are the best sign in the Zodiac! I am kinda biased because it's my sign, but also because almost every member of my family is one too! Aunts, Uncles, my mom, brother, cousins. November is full of birthdays for my family!

I know a lot of people don't really believe in astrology, but the more I read about my sign the more I am convinced there is some validity to sun signs. I feel that I am very much Scorpio. So I figured I'd tell you a little about scorpio traits and my personality using a little help from a pretty cool book I read this summer, by Linda Goodman called Sun Signs.

An encyclopedia describes a scorpion as a nocturnal arachnid that attacks and paralyzes its prey with a poison injected by the long, curved tail, used for both defense and destruction. Its sting is sometimes fatal.

People often draw back visibly when someone says he or she was born in November, murmuring, "Oh, you're a Scorpio!" either in frank fear, or in awe and respect. Sometimes there's also a giggle that obviously refers to the legendary Scorpio passion. In almost all the songs when they talk about signs they refer to Scorpios being the zodiac freaks! The song jumping to mind right now is Tyrese's Signs of Love Making "I met a Scorpio, she had no limit to where she'd go 'cause she was so damn sexual!" You guys know the rest. But just in case here you go.... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZpR_5D5ZV9s&ob=av2e.

Scorpio likes to travel incognito. Scorpio has total ego. He knows what he is and he knows what he is not, and nothing anyone else thinks will change this knowledge. Insults roll right off his back, and compliments don't move him a fraction of an inch. He needs no one to tell him his vices or his virtues. At best, he'll calmly agree with your appraisal; at worst, he'll suspect your motives.Scorpio has total ego. He knows what he is and he knows what he is not, and nothing anyone else thinks will change this knowledge. Insults roll right off his back, and compliments don't move him a fraction of an inch. He needs bo one to tell him his vices or his virtues. At best, he'll calmly agree with your appraisal; at worst, he'll suspect your motives. No matter how his emotions are stirred, youll rarely see them reflected on Scorpio's frozen, immobile face. These people proudly and consciously practice a blank expression. They command their features to remain firm, and their features obey. (They wouldn't dare disobey a Scorpio.) You'll seldom see Scorpio give himself away by blushing or flushing, frowning or grinning. Smiles are rare, but genuine. The body follows the same orders as the face. There will rarely be any jumping, sudden starts or nervous mannerisms.

All of the above is true of me. I don't like large groups of people. Usually if there are large groups of people I will find a place of my own that I feel comfortable and others tend to approach me. I don't take verbal compliments very seriously. I am an action kind of girl. I firmly believe that your actions speak louder than words. I've definitely mastered the *blank stare*! My roommate actually said to m today that when she says stuff to me she can't tell if I'm uncomfortable or if I find what she says funny because my facial expression doesn't change. :)

If you're sensitive, don't ask his opinion or advice. You'll get the naked, brutal truth. You asked him, hell tell you. Scorpio will not pay a false compliment to gain a point or win an ally. It's beneath him to flatter. When he says something nice to you, treasure it. You can be sure it's sincere and unvarnished.

I'm not one to sugar coat. I think my roommates are quickly learning that. If you ask me for advice I'm going to give you my true opinion. You may not always like my advice, but I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear just for the sake of sparing your feelings. I will always be nice about it, but no sugar coating here! Yet, there's a haunting sweetness about these people, and often a gentle sympathy with the sick or despairing. Scorpio's touch can be cool and tender, as well as hot. I can be very sweet and gentle when need be. I am a nurturer. I want to help others and fix things. Kinda makes sense when you think about why my 1st career choice wasn't the most fulfilling for me and now I'm moving towards something that allows me to help others in need.

Scorpio is intensely loyal to friends. "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends." My closest friends can attest to this fact about me. I will do just about anything in my power to help and protect the people I love. So much so that I have relinquished relationships with people because I didn't agree with the way they have treated my friends. Others may forgive them, but I don't forgive easily and I definitely don't forget. Scorpio never forgets a gift or a kindness, and it's richly rewarded. Conversely, he also remembers an injury or an injustice.

The female Scorpio has a deep, mysterious beauty. She's magnetic, proud and totally confident. A Scorpio will subdue her drive and magnetize a man with the heavy perfume of her exotic glance as she allows him to use his lighter to ignite her cigarette. The Scorpio girl walks toward you slowly, seductively, and silently delivers her private message. It's puzzling, but these women can look seductive in jeans, jodhpurs or basketball shoes. I've actually had both guys and girls tell me I look sexy in basketball shorts. I tend to get more guys hitting on me in gym clothes than I do when I am dressed up all girly.

You can give her a tumble, but she won't fall all over herself reacting to your overtures. Don't expect her to bat long, sweeping eyelashes at you, and adore you with blind devotion. Lots of female Scorpios are tomboys with stubby eyelashes. Besides, with those beautiful, mysterious eyes that can read your mind so clearly, she doesn't need any extra trimming. Whisper something romantic that would melt another girl out of her senses, and the Scorpio girl will simply give you an intense, penetrating look that will see right straight through to your real intentions. She's a human X-ray machine, so don't flirt. Unless you mean business, you're wasting her time and insulting her. I wouldn't advise you to insult a Scorpio.

I'm a total tomboy. I love football, beer, being outdoors. I usually laugh when guys use "romantic" flirty pick up lines with me. I don't respond to flattery unless I can sense that it's genuine.

I'm not only going to give Scorpio traits I am proud of. Good and Bad, I am proud of who I am.

You can be sure that heaven certainly has no fury like that of a Scorpio woman who's lost her normal steady control over those inward, seething, Pluto emotions. She can be overbearing and domineering, sarcastic and frigid- then turn as hot as an oven at 500 degrees Fahrenheit. She can hate with bitter venom and love with fierce abandon. She can shriek like a furious banshee or whisper like an affectionate turtle dove. One thing you can be sure of- she's never wishy-washy.

 

I can get really angry and sometimes surprise myself at how angry, literally fuming, I can be. However, I will love unconditionally and literally be the nicest, sweetest person you know. I am very giving and tolerant, but usually by the time you see the explosiveness of my personality it's because I've given the person multiple chances and I've reached my breaking point. Once this happens there's no coming back until I have cooled off and depending on the situation the cooling off period may never come....

 

The Scorpio woman has a disconcerting gift that can make icy shivers run up your spine. It's a peculiar form of black magic, and she weaves it so expertly it can seem like real witchcraft. You have very little chance to escape, once her eyes meet yours.

Because of her mystical sixth sense, she can often recognize a future mate at first glance, and somehow, she'll transfer this perception instantly. You'll have one of two reactions. You'll be hopelessly caught in her spell, and down you'll go, in a dizzy spin toward surrender, or you'll be scared right out of your socks, and feel like running for help. What's your rush? Stay around awhile. You might find out what life is all about. She knows. And she'll teach you. Anyway, you should be flattered that she considers you worth that strange gaze. A Scorpio woman can't excuse weakness in a man. She looks for ambition and courage. She wants a mate who can dominate her and make her proud, without disturbing her secret individuality. He's expected to be strong, masculine and better-looking than average. A high degree of intelligence is required to match her own excellent mind, plus more than a passing acquaintance with abstract, philosophical wisdom. So put your socks back on and practice a superior smirk. Everybody you know will think you're pretty super to have her staring at you. The men and women both. It could open new vistas, when you think about it. Your personal stock should zoom several points higher than it was before she noticed you.

Having once achieved closeness with a female Scorpio, you can be positive you're a unique and unusual man. You can also be sure that her love for you is unmatched by any you'll ever experience-and you can take that in several ways. You'll be the most important interest in her life. If she's a typical Pluto girl, she'll boost you loyally, and try to please you with passionate intensity. If you're too hard to please, she'll show her frustration with passionate attempts to conquer your disinterest.

The word "passionate" probably caught your eye. Most men have heard exciting rumors about the passion of November females. It's true. She's brimming over inside with passion, though it's kept under rigid control by a poised, frosty attitude toward strangers, and a surface smoothness suggestive of black velvet. But the male sex is too inclined to relate passion strictly to romantic action; and that's selling her short, because Pluto's definition of the word is far more encompassing. It's involved with her feelings about everything she touches. She's never just slightly interested. It's impossible for her to be detached or casual. She seldom likes or dislikes a play, a book, religion, furniture or people. She either bitterly resents or she intensely worships. If one of these two passions can't be aroused, then she totally ignores, with ice around the edges. Yet, through it all, she'll remain essentially untouched by emotional storms, judging at least from her placid exterior, which always drapes itself around her after each minor or major nuclear explosion. It may be difficult to convince your mother-in-law that her daughter really broke all those dishes and tore all those draperies to shreds after the fury has subsided and her black velvet poise has returned. People may look at you as if you're a character assassinator. What do you mean? Shame on you, accusing that cool, controlled, lovely girl of such a temper. You have my sympathy, if that's any help.

 

 It's true that the Scorpio girl sometimes wanders into dangerous waters in her efforts to penetrate life, and since there's not the slightest trace of fear in her (unless she has an affliction to her Moon, and is full of nameless terrors), her search may indeed take her into some weird byways. But the typical Scorpio will emerge from any discovery still strong and pure. See coming to Israel really was destiny! This is my journey and I may not always take the normal or safe route but I will always identify the lesson behind my madness.

 

She could be the keeper of quite a few secrets. It's surprising how many dark deeds are confessed to Scorpios, though their own inner lives are marked: "Private-Keep Out." She likes to hear secrets, but she'll seldom tell anything anyone has confided in her, not even to you (unless there's an afflicted Mercury in her natal chart). You can also expect her to have a stack of secrets that relate to her personally, and don't try to pry them out of her. There's a private part to this woman you'll never touch, a part of her mind and soul that belongs strictly to her, and there's absolutely no trespassing there. She's not untruthful, in fact she's more oftien too brutally honest, yet there will always be those special thoughts and feelings she won't confide to you or anyone else. People open up to me very easily. In fact just last night we went out and one of the guys we were with had a long personal conversation with me for over an hour. He kept saying I can't believe I'm opening up to you. However this was not a surprise to me. I am actually quite used to it now. My friends and even strangers call me to be a listening ear often. However there are very few people I tell my secrets to. If you're priveledged enough to know them, you know you are special. I will not just open up to anybody.

 

A Scorpio woman will be incredibly loyal to those she finds strong and deserving, but the weak ones will never be honored by her glance. Her dignity in human relationships can make her seem aloof and snobbish. In a way, she definitely is, because she practices a personal caste system, and it's more clearly marked than that of her Leo and Capricorn sisters. All Scorpios are highly selective in friendships. They'll keep the worthy companions through an entire lifetime, and freeze the shallow, the common or the unworthy. I do not use the word friend loosely! I don't keep a lot of company. If you're in my close circle of friends you've probably been there for a while now. I know and meet a lot of people, but I don't consider everyone a friend. I've known one of my best friends since we were about 3 yrs old and we are still thick as theives, no matter what. My other bestie and I have known each other since the first day of freshman yr of college and there's nothing I wouldn't do for them. There is no amount of time and space that can change that! There are definitely a lot of people that think I'm a snob though. I however know who I like and feel deserve my energies and I won't waste it on frivalous relationships. I won't be rude or unpleasant I'm just very selective with those I keep close to me.

 

A Scorpio woman need not be a legal wife to give wifely love and devotion. If circumstances beyond your control make marriage impossible, she'll love you from hell to breakfast, and not give a hang what the neighbors think. In most such unusual situations, the relationship is real and honest above and beyond the shallow,

selfish love of many a legitimate marriage. The hypocrisies of society will never keep this courageous woman from seeking the sun. She answers to no law but her own, and in her Pluto heart, she has more total understanding of the vow "till death do us part" than half the brides who blissfully murmur the phrase.

Despite her own strong individualism, the typical Scorpio girl will let her man be the boss. Instead of overshadowing him with her force and drive, she'll apply her talents to help him attain his goals. Your future will be important to her, and she's not likely to insist on retaining her own career after marriage (unless you've disappointed her deeply or a second job is needed in a temporary domestic crisis). She may fight you wildly in private, but she'll defend you fiercely in public. She won't stand for anyone maligning you or taking advantage of you. Those who try will feel the lash of her righteous anger. Your happiness will always come first. Unless there are adverse aspects to her Sun sign or ascendant in her natal chart, she'll patiently help you persevere until you get what you want, and while you're getting it, she won't whine or complain or become restless, though she might turn a little bitter if you lose your courage on the way. She'll expect you to aim as high as your abilities will reach. Anything less may bring on some pretty sarcastic taunts and reproaches, especially if she has an afflicted Mercury.

Scorpio women love their homes, which usually shine with cleanliness, taste and comfort. Meals are served on time, and things are generally under control. If the opposite is true, something is making her mighty unhappy, because her natural inclination is to beauty and system. To the typical Scorpio woman spring cleaning is like vacation. They love to dig into comers to see what they can find. Just be careful she doesn't find any cryptic notes that smell of perfume in your old jacket pockets when she's clearing out the closets. Scorpio is unreasonably suspicious, even when there's no basis for suspicion, so you can imagine what happens when she finds a real clue to possible infidelity. Picture the shape of a mushroom cloud and you'll get a general idea of what may happen, figuratively speaking. It's no good being suspicious of her, no matter how many opportunities arise; and there will be a goodly number of them, because she never exposes her deepest feelings. Naturally, this can arouse a few questions on your part. Just swallow them, along with the lump in your throat. Like that locked chest or drawer she's had since childhood, certain things about her are off limits. It will get you nowhere to probe. I realize fully that it isn't fair. So does she. But that doesn't change things a bit. That's the way it is. Take her or leave her. You'll probably take her. It's almost impossible to leave her. If nothing else, she'll haunt you the rest of your life. Adjusting to the idiosyncrasies of her nature is easier than suffering the nightmares that will surely result if you walk away. No one walks away from a Scorpio. Not really. Didn't you know that? Those who have tried can educate you. Anyway, you have a very special woman.

A Scorpio woman will sometimes nearly drown you in her passion for living, yet in a real storm, her cool, calm reason and steely strength will be a life raft. Though she works her magic in strange and secret ways, her haunting eyes will always gaze at you with basic honesty, even while she remains just beyond the reach of human understanding. She's a little dangerous, perhaps, but undeniably exciting. Let other husbands cope with the flighty girls. You've known the compelling mystery of a lovely witch who brews a pretty good cup of tea and never bums your toast. (Well, almost never.) When the cup is empty, let her read the tea leaves for you. She can-if she wants to.

You mean you didn't know? I told you there are things she keeps to herself....

 

In summation: Passionate, Loyal, Strong, Disdain mess/disorganization, The keeper of your secrets, Secretive with her own , alluring.

 

The Scorpio woman has great charm, allure, and inner strength, and is able to overcome most any obstacle in life. She comes across as self-confident and self-possessed and men are drawn to her for that reason. There is a mysterious quality about the Scorpio woman, because she is intensely private, discrete and secretive. Soon she will learn everything about you, but later you will realize that she hasn`t given you many details about herself – that`s Scorpio`s natural reticence. Since it is said Scorpio is intense and honest, people often shy away from them because they are afraid they will be burned. Even if the Scorpio you happen to meet is a master of hiding her personality, look into her eyes and if you feel like she`s reading your soul you can be pretty sure she`s a Scorpion.

 

Scorpio beauty is attracted to power, so if you have it, you are ahead of the game. Your other challenge will be that this lady had a mind of her own, so if you think you can tame her, forget it!

I'm a proud Scorpio and I believe a lot of my personality are strong Scorpio traits so I just wanted to share a little about me! :)